It’s Saturday and on your way home from grocery shopping you decide to stop in at your local sex shop and pick up a sex toy to spice up your Saturday night—right? Not quite! 

Most women wouldn’t be caught dead in a sex shop. They’d simply be too embarrassed. But what most women don’t realize is that you can find erotica shops run by and for women that are very female friendly. 

If you’ve been thinking of buying a sex toy or an erotic video, but feel less than confident about what you’re doing, this is the kind of shop for you. 

Dr. Berman recommends vibrators to everyone, but obviously not everyone is comfortable with the idea. The first step is getting to know your body, feeling comfortable with your body—and some women are never comfortable with vibrators, and that’s okay. 

But if you’re in the market for a vibrator,  Be cautions about walking into a store and asking: “What’s your best vibrator?” You’ll get a $75 thing with bells and whistles and moving pearls that doesn’t even necessarily help.” 

The following are resources for online shopping of sex aids, videos, erotic books and massage oils. 

Candida Royalle’s Femme Videos available online at and along with other web sites.

Sinclair Intimacy Institute

Eve’s Garden

Grand Opening Sexuality Boutique

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